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Aljude. 17. Adelaide Australia. Filipino Pride.

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lilgdawg:

SOMEDAY…
SOMEWHERE…
with that special SOMEONE <3

SOMEDAY…

SOMEWHERE…

with that special SOMEONE <3

Don’t take her or her kindness for granted…
If you have her and she means something to you, she’s someone special to you. Then treat her right because she deserves it, don’t take her kindness for weakness and use it to your advantage. You’re lucky to have someone like her who cares about you like that and treat her like she is important, show her and tell her everyday how much she means to you and don’t leave or let her feeling neglected. When you are out with your friends then treat her just like you would treat her when it’s just you two alone, be proud that you are lucky to have someone like her and let other people know that she is Your girlfriend you know. Be affectionate with her in front of your friends and don’t make her feel like she isn’t even there. Don’t ignore her ever and just be with her because she means something to you.

Don’t take her or her kindness for granted…

If you have her and she means something to you, she’s someone special to you. Then treat her right because she deserves it, don’t take her kindness for weakness and use it to your advantage. You’re lucky to have someone like her who cares about you like that and treat her like she is important, show her and tell her everyday how much she means to you and don’t leave or let her feeling neglected. When you are out with your friends then treat her just like you would treat her when it’s just you two alone, be proud that you are lucky to have someone like her and let other people know that she is Your girlfriend you know. Be affectionate with her in front of your friends and don’t make her feel like she isn’t even there. Don’t ignore her ever and just be with her because she means something to you.

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Don’t talk to me if you’re just bored. Have a reason to talk to me not just to pass time.

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Dont expect so much;

Dont expect me to always be the first one to hit you up, say i love you ,say i miss you. Im not always going to be the one putting all the effort in to the relationship. It’d be nice if you made the first move once in a while, because really if i put all this effort in and you dont even bother to try, i feel like all the effort and hard work is going to be for nothing.

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lilgdawg:

Sometimes it may hurt to let go and moving on..
After a break up it hurts, I know. Their are some of us who choose to still hold on even when the other person has clearly “Let go”, but you must ask yourself this question “Does the weight of holding on equal or greater then the pain of letting go?, think of long term affects, would you rather feel the pain of holding on for a long time or feel the pain of letting go for a short time? As much good memories were created, sometimes it’s best to move on because when you don’t move on you lose the chance to meet new people, for every minute you spend wallowing in the pain of the break-up you lose to start new beginning. As much as it may hurt, sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come into fruition, you know? Don’t be stuck in one spot holding a broken heart, get up and put together the pieces that have been shattered, let go and move on so that you can meet someone else and start a new beautiful relationship with them. Come to terms with the break-up, it happened for a reason and in reality there is nothing you can really do about it, so why spend time thinking about it and hurting yourself? I promise you will meet someone “Special” in due time, just be patient and your time will come, if not now, then I promise you soon because out there is someone looking for you.

Sometimes it may hurt to let go and moving on..

After a break up it hurts, I know. Their are some of us who choose to still hold on even when the other person has clearly “Let go”, but you must ask yourself this question “Does the weight of holding on equal or greater then the pain of letting go?, think of long term affects, would you rather feel the pain of holding on for a long time or feel the pain of letting go for a short time? As much good memories were created, sometimes it’s best to move on because when you don’t move on you lose the chance to meet new people, for every minute you spend wallowing in the pain of the break-up you lose to start new beginning. As much as it may hurt, sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come into fruition, you know? Don’t be stuck in one spot holding a broken heart, get up and put together the pieces that have been shattered, let go and move on so that you can meet someone else and start a new beautiful relationship with them. Come to terms with the break-up, it happened for a reason and in reality there is nothing you can really do about it, so why spend time thinking about it and hurting yourself? I promise you will meet someone “Special” in due time, just be patient and your time will come, if not now, then I promise you soon because out there is someone looking for you.

trungphan:

I still remember..
Even though we are apart I still remember everything, I remember the laughs we shared together, I remember all the times that we made each other smile, I remember the feeling of happiness that you gave me. I remember everything that you’ve told me, everything from your past experiences, your favorite things, to the small things like what you like and dislike. These things that I remember are implanted into my mind, It’s as if they just happened the day before, I mean I know they didn’t but I don’t know, It just feels like they did. These memories give me a mix of emotions, I’m happy for the memories that we have created together but sad at the same time because I won’t get to make more with you, however If given the chance I would though because I was very lucky I got to be the reason for your smile. These memories will always be apart of me, apart of my heart just like you will always be. But still I think of you and I can’t help but miss you, every time you would smile at me I would get butterflies in my stomach and I would remind myself how lucky I am to have you in my life. Thing is I hope you don’t forget me and our memories we shared together, but even if you do, know that I’ll always be here for you because everyone needs that should to lean on when they are sad at some point in their life.

I still remember..

Even though we are apart I still remember everything, I remember the laughs we shared together, I remember all the times that we made each other smile, I remember the feeling of happiness that you gave me. I remember everything that you’ve told me, everything from your past experiences, your favorite things, to the small things like what you like and dislike. These things that I remember are implanted into my mind, It’s as if they just happened the day before, I mean I know they didn’t but I don’t know, It just feels like they did. These memories give me a mix of emotions, I’m happy for the memories that we have created together but sad at the same time because I won’t get to make more with you, however If given the chance I would though because I was very lucky I got to be the reason for your smile. These memories will always be apart of me, apart of my heart just like you will always be. But still I think of you and I can’t help but miss you, every time you would smile at me I would get butterflies in my stomach and I would remind myself how lucky I am to have you in my life. Thing is I hope you don’t forget me and our memories we shared together, but even if you do, know that I’ll always be here for you because everyone needs that should to lean on when they are sad at some point in their life.

trungphan:

Do you know what scares me the most…? :(
I’m afraid that you will meet new people and forget me… I’m scared that if we don’t talk then I’ll just become another person in your life and I never want to have that happen because you will always be someone really special to me. I’m scared that one day someone will replace me in your heart and I’ll just be that one person who made you happy at one point in your life… It scares me so much that maybe one day we will drift apart and I’ll never hear from you again, It hurts and I can’t help but cry when I think that I might lose you from my life.. I like you in my life and I always want you in it, so to lose you would just hurt so much.. I’m just so afraid.. So all I ask is please don’t forget me.. I don’t want to become just another memory in your head..

Do you know what scares me the most…? :(

I’m afraid that you will meet new people and forget me… I’m scared that if we don’t talk then I’ll just become another person in your life and I never want to have that happen because you will always be someone really special to me. I’m scared that one day someone will replace me in your heart and I’ll just be that one person who made you happy at one point in your life… It scares me so much that maybe one day we will drift apart and I’ll never hear from you again, It hurts and I can’t help but cry when I think that I might lose you from my life.. I like you in my life and I always want you in it, so to lose you would just hurt so much.. I’m just so afraid.. So all I ask is please don’t forget me.. I don’t want to become just another memory in your head..

trungphan:

From Friends To Lovers
We are constantly meeting new people every day, But have you ever thought that maybe just one of those people could actually be your special someone?, That one person that means the world to you, you know? That person you can call when you need someone to talk to because your feeling down and they some how find a way to make you laugh and smile all the time. It’s starts out with a simple “Hello”, then from there you both are able to talk for hours with out any awkward or silents moments during the conversation. First it starts with the online messages, then calling or texting, and eventually progressing to webcam sessions where you two finally get to see each other for the first time. Ever since that first conversation you both clicked like you knew each other for years, Eventually feelings start to blossom and you start to feel the butterflies in your stomach whenever you talk to them or get a message from them you know. Over time you both start seeing hints from each other that you both want something more and eventually one or the other finally gathers up the courage to ask them to be their girlfriend or boyfriend and now you went from friends to lovers. Sometimes falling in love with someone who you would never expect to fall for could end up so beautiful sometimes and it’s crazy how someone who was once a stranger to you, Now means the whole world to you now.
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From Friends To Lovers

We are constantly meeting new people every day, But have you ever thought that maybe just one of those people could actually be your special someone?, That one person that means the world to you, you know? That person you can call when you need someone to talk to because your feeling down and they some how find a way to make you laugh and smile all the time. It’s starts out with a simple “Hello”, then from there you both are able to talk for hours with out any awkward or silents moments during the conversation. First it starts with the online messages, then calling or texting, and eventually progressing to webcam sessions where you two finally get to see each other for the first time. Ever since that first conversation you both clicked like you knew each other for years, Eventually feelings start to blossom and you start to feel the butterflies in your stomach whenever you talk to them or get a message from them you know. Over time you both start seeing hints from each other that you both want something more and eventually one or the other finally gathers up the courage to ask them to be their girlfriend or boyfriend and now you went from friends to lovers. Sometimes falling in love with someone who you would never expect to fall for could end up so beautiful sometimes and it’s crazy how someone who was once a stranger to you, Now means the whole world to you now.

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trungphan:

Arguing In A relationship
Embrace conflict. There is no need to fear it. Conflict is normal, even healthy. Differences between you mean that there are things you can learn from each other. Often conflict shows us where we can or need to grow.
Go after the issue, not each other. Friendly fighting sticks with the issue. Neither party resorts to name calling or character assassination. It’s enough to deal with the problem without adding the new problem of hurting each other’s feelings.
Listen respectfully. When people feel strongly about something, it’s only fair to hear them out. Respectful listening means acknowledging their feelings, either verbally or through focused attention. It means never telling someone that he or she “shouldn’t” feel that way. It means saving your point of view until after you’ve let the other person know you understand that they feel intensely about the subject, even if you don’t quite get it.
Talk softly. The louder someone yells, the less likely they are to be heard. Even if your partner yells, there’s no need to yell back. Taking the volume down makes it possible for people to start focusing on the issues instead of reacting to the noise.
Get curious, not defensive. Defending yourself, whether by vehemently protesting your innocence or rightness or by turning the tables and attacking, escalates the fight. Instead of upping the ante, ask for more information, details, and examples. There is usually some basis for the other person’s complaint. When you meet a complaint with curiosity, you make room for understanding.
Find points of agreement. There almost always are parts of a conflict that can be points of agreement. Finding common ground, even if it’s agreeing that there is a problem, is an important start to finding a common solution.
Look for options. Fighting ends when cooperation begins. Asking politely for suggestions or alternatives invites collaboration. Careful consideration of options shows respect. Offering alternatives of your own shows that you also are willing to try something new.
Make concessions. Small concessions can turn the situation around. If you give a little, it makes room for the other person to make concessions too. Small concessions lead to larger compromises. Compromise doesn’t have to mean that you’re meeting each other exactly 50-50. Sometimes it’s a 60-40 or even 80-20 agreement. This isn’t about scorekeeping. It’s about finding a solution that is workable for both of you.
Make peace. Agree that the relationship is more important than winning arguments. Sometimes this means staying up very, very late until both of you come to a workable compromise.

Arguing In A relationship

Embrace conflict. There is no need to fear it. Conflict is normal, even healthy. Differences between you mean that there are things you can learn from each other. Often conflict shows us where we can or need to grow.

Go after the issue, not each other. Friendly fighting sticks with the issue. Neither party resorts to name calling or character assassination. It’s enough to deal with the problem without adding the new problem of hurting each other’s feelings.

Listen respectfully. When people feel strongly about something, it’s only fair to hear them out. Respectful listening means acknowledging their feelings, either verbally or through focused attention. It means never telling someone that he or she “shouldn’t” feel that way. It means saving your point of view until after you’ve let the other person know you understand that they feel intensely about the subject, even if you don’t quite get it.

Talk softly. The louder someone yells, the less likely they are to be heard. Even if your partner yells, there’s no need to yell back. Taking the volume down makes it possible for people to start focusing on the issues instead of reacting to the noise.

Get curious, not defensive. Defending yourself, whether by vehemently protesting your innocence or rightness or by turning the tables and attacking, escalates the fight. Instead of upping the ante, ask for more information, details, and examples. There is usually some basis for the other person’s complaint. When you meet a complaint with curiosity, you make room for understanding.

Find points of agreement. There almost always are parts of a conflict that can be points of agreement. Finding common ground, even if it’s agreeing that there is a problem, is an important start to finding a common solution.

Look for options. Fighting ends when cooperation begins. Asking politely for suggestions or alternatives invites collaboration. Careful consideration of options shows respect. Offering alternatives of your own shows that you also are willing to try something new.

Make concessions. Small concessions can turn the situation around. If you give a little, it makes room for the other person to make concessions too. Small concessions lead to larger compromises. Compromise doesn’t have to mean that you’re meeting each other exactly 50-50. Sometimes it’s a 60-40 or even 80-20 agreement. This isn’t about scorekeeping. It’s about finding a solution that is workable for both of you.

Make peace. Agree that the relationship is more important than winning arguments. Sometimes this means staying up very, very late until both of you come to a workable compromise.

loralieisawesome:

10knotes:

THINGS A GIRL WISHES HER BOYFRIEND KNEW:
I want you to hug me from behind, unexpectedly.
I want you to give me your hoodie when I`m cold.
I want you to hold me and keep me warm.
I want you to cuddle with me and watch movies together.
I want you to kiss me in the rain.
I want you to hold my hands and play with my fingers.
I want you to play with my hair.
I want you to take amazing photos with me.
I want you to come to my house and meet my family.
I want you to lay on my bed with me and just hold me.
I want you to let me dress you up and make you look silly.
I want you to watch sunrise/sunset with me.
I want you to give me piggy back rides daily.
I want you to kiss my nose.
I want you to wipe my tears away.
I want you to tell me that you miss me already even if we were together five minutes ago.
I want you to drop everything and hug me tight.
I want you to take me on a picnic.
I want you to snuggle with me in the movie theaters.
I want you to squeeze me as hard as you can when you hug me.
I want you to smile every single time you see me.
I want you to know how much I love you.
I just want you.
THINGS A BOY WISHES HIS GIRLFRIEND KNEW
I want you to let me play with my/your hair
I want you to accept my compliments
I want you to listen to me sometimes
I want you to smile for me (guys love their girls smile)
I want you to hold my hand unexpectedly
I want you to tell me silly jokes and pick up lines
I want you to watch Pixar/Disney movies with me
I want you to try to play video games with me
I want you to tell me silly stories
I want you to sing and dance randomly with me
I want to take pictures and make couple videos with you (even though guys may not show it, we enjoy taking pictures and making videos)
I want you to not make fun of my little imperfections (sometimes it gets to us)
I want you to kiss me
I want you to bite my lip occasionally (I cant speak for all guys, but damn it feels good)
I want you to tell me you love me
I want you to tell me you missed me when we finally get together
I want you to accept me for who I am
I want you to love me unconditionally
I just want to spend time with you
I need you to know that I love you so much
Follow this blog, you will love it on your dashboard

dear future boyfriend..

loralieisawesome:

10knotes:

THINGS A GIRL WISHES HER BOYFRIEND KNEW:

I want you to hug me from behind, unexpectedly.

I want you to give me your hoodie when I`m cold.

I want you to hold me and keep me warm.

I want you to cuddle with me and watch movies together.

I want you to kiss me in the rain.

I want you to hold my hands and play with my fingers.

I want you to play with my hair.

I want you to take amazing photos with me.

I want you to come to my house and meet my family.

I want you to lay on my bed with me and just hold me.

I want you to let me dress you up and make you look silly.

I want you to watch sunrise/sunset with me.

I want you to give me piggy back rides daily.

I want you to kiss my nose.

I want you to wipe my tears away.

I want you to tell me that you miss me already even if we were together five minutes ago.

I want you to drop everything and hug me tight.

I want you to take me on a picnic.

I want you to snuggle with me in the movie theaters.

I want you to squeeze me as hard as you can when you hug me.

I want you to smile every single time you see me.

I want you to know how much I love you.

I just want you.

THINGS A BOY WISHES HIS GIRLFRIEND KNEW

I want you to let me play with my/your hair

I want you to accept my compliments

I want you to listen to me sometimes

I want you to smile for me (guys love their girls smile)

I want you to hold my hand unexpectedly

I want you to tell me silly jokes and pick up lines

I want you to watch Pixar/Disney movies with me

I want you to try to play video games with me

I want you to tell me silly stories

I want you to sing and dance randomly with me

I want to take pictures and make couple videos with you (even though guys may not show it, we enjoy taking pictures and making videos)

I want you to not make fun of my little imperfections (sometimes it gets to us)

I want you to kiss me

I want you to bite my lip occasionally (I cant speak for all guys, but damn it feels good)

I want you to tell me you love me

I want you to tell me you missed me when we finally get together

I want you to accept me for who I am

I want you to love me unconditionally

I just want to spend time with you

I need you to know that I love you so much

Follow this blog, you will love it on your dashboard

dear future boyfriend..

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lilgdawg:

I love that “in the beginning” feeling where everything is perfect.

You like them. They like you. Texting twenty four seven. Saying good morning, saying goodnight. Then you start using cute little pet names. Then it gets to the awkward stage where you’re not sure exactly what you are. Then once you figure it out, it all goes down hill from there. All the excitement is gone. All the passion is wasted. Everything you once were has just faded to lies and bullshit. I hate love.

I love that “in the beginning” feeling where everything is perfect.

You like them. They like you. Texting twenty four seven. Saying good morning, saying goodnight. Then you start using cute little pet names. Then it gets to the awkward stage where you’re not sure exactly what you are. Then once you figure it out, it all goes down hill from there. All the excitement is gone. All the passion is wasted. Everything you once were has just faded to lies and bullshit. I hate love.

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